What if you're already perfect?

A thought provoking message from The Crazy Life Coach, Sandra Jarvis

Sandra Jarvis Life Coach

Hi! I'm Sandra...

My life reads like one of those crazy memoirs that are almost unbelievable. (In fact, I wrote one of those! Scroll down for more info!)

I’ve survived of all kinds of abuse:
physical, sexual, emotional and spiritual.

My parents had a mixed-orientation marriage and my father was a violent, bi-polar man.

I married young, hoping to escape the craziness of my childhood, only to discover that my husband had a pornography addiction.

During the next ten years, I became pregnant six times. I miscarried one child, and gave birth to five others.

Postpartum psychosis and severe depression became my constant companions, but no one knew I was struggling because I was determined to uphold a facade of grace, poise, and strength. 

Even when I was diagnosed with a rare form of salivary gland cancer…then discovered my middle child was transgender a few days later… I showed up strong. 

 I was hellbent on living a life that was as close to perfect as possible–and I wasn’t about to let anyone perceive me as weak!

Hi! I'm Sandra...

Sandra Jarvis Life Coach

My life reads like one of those crazy memoirs that are almost unbelievable. (In fact, I wrote one of those! Scroll down for more info!)

I’ve survived of all kinds of abuse:
physical, sexual, emotional and spiritual.

My parents had a mixed-orientation marriage and my father was a violent, bi-polar man.

I married young, hoping to escape the craziness of my childhood, only to discover that my husband had a pornography addiction.

During the next ten years, I became pregnant six times. I miscarried one child, and gave birth to five others.

Postpartum psychosis and severe depression became my constant companions, but no one knew I was struggling because I was determined to uphold a facade of grace, poise, and strength. 

Even when I was diagnosed with a rare form of salivary gland cancer…then discovered my middle child was transgender a few days later…I showed up strong. 

 I was hellbent on living a life that was as close to perfect as possible–and I wasn’t about to let anyone perceive me as weak!

Hi! I'm Sandra...

Sandra Jarvis Life Coach

My life reads like one of those crazy memoirs that are almost unbelievable. (In fact, I wrote one of those! Scroll down for more info!)

I’ve survived of all kinds of abuse:
physical, sexual, emotional and spiritual.

My parents had a mixed-orientation marriage and my father was a violent, bi-polar man.

I married young, hoping to escape the craziness of my childhood, only to discover that my husband had a pornography addiction.

During the next ten years, I became pregnant six times. I miscarried one child, and gave birth to five others.

Postpartum psychosis and severe depression became my constant companions, but no one knew I was struggling because I was determined to uphold a facade of grace, poise, and strength. 

Even when I was diagnosed with a rare form of salivary gland cancer…then discovered my middle child was transgender a few days later…I showed up strong. 

 I was hellbent on living a life that was as close to perfect as possible–and I wasn’t about to let anyone perceive me as weak!

I held a deep belief that if I could DO everything right, I’d be able to prove my worth. 

And if I could prove my worth, then I’d finally be good enough. As a wife. As a mother. As a sister. As a friend.

I was killing myself, trying to DO IT ALL, and it seemed as if I was well on my way to building that perfect life…

…when a rollover ATV accident severed my right hand.

And suddenly, I couldn’t DO anything.

During the next five years and twenty surgeries, I had to learn how to become a human being, because before that, I’d been trying to prove my worth as a human doing.

During that process, I discovered a secret that changed me from a bitter and angry woman, to someone who loves life and works every day to help other people love it, too!

Sharing that secret has become my passion!

Are you a perfectionist, too?

Would you like to know how you can stop DOING it all and still be enough?

Are you interested in letting go of the crazy expectations you’ve placed on yourself so you can start creating a life filled with harmony and peace?

Sandra Jarvis Life Coaching Whole You Project

I held a deep belief that if I could DO everything right, I’d be able to prove my worth. 

And if I could prove my worth, then I’d finally be good enough. As a wife. As a mother. As a sister. As a friend.

I was killing myself, trying to DO IT ALL, and it seemed as if I was well on my way to building that perfect life…

…when a rollover ATV accident severed my right hand.

And suddenly, I couldn’t DO anything.

During the next five years and twenty surgeries, I had to learn how to become a human being, because before that, I’d been trying to prove my worth as a human doing.

During that process, I discovered a secret that changed me from a bitter and angry, woman, to someone who loves life and works every day to help other people love it, too!

Sandra Jarvis Life Coaching Whole You Project

Sharing that secret has become my passion!

Are you a perfectionist, too?

Would you like to know how you can stop DOING it all and still be enough?

Are you interested in letting go of the crazy expectations you’ve placed on yourself so you can start creating a life filled with harmony and peace?

I held a deep belief that if I could DO everything right, I’d be able to prove my worth. 

And if I could prove my worth, then I’d finally be good enough. As a wife. As a mother. As a sister. As a friend.

I was killing myself, trying to DO IT ALL, and it seemed as if I was well on my way to building that perfect life…

…when a rollover ATV accident severed my right hand.

And suddenly, I couldn’t DO anything.

During the next five years and twenty surgeries, I had to learn how to become a human being, because before that, I’d been trying to prove my worth as a human doing.

During that process, I discovered a secret that changed me from a bitter and angry, woman, to someone who loves life and works every day to help other people love it, too!

Sandra Jarvis Life Coaching Whole You Project

Sharing that secret has become my passion!

Are you a perfectionist, too?

Would you like to know how you can stop DOING it all and still be enough?

Are you interested in letting go of the crazy expectations you’ve placed on yourself so you can start creating a life filled with harmony and peace?

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by Sandra Jarvis

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A Memoir of Hope and Healing

by Sandra Jarvis

Severed a Memoir of Hope and Healing

Severed: a Memoir of Hope and Healing is the powerful true story of finding hope and purpose amid life’s challenges. It provides proof that even in life’s darkest moments, peace is available, perhaps even plentiful.

Order Your Copy Today!